Showing posts with label personal opinion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal opinion. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

The Boat is Sinking 3: the art of collecting


Bags or baskets?  My pet peeve are baskets.  Can I just stick to one?  This is terrible.  I don't have much but I think that I have more than what I need!  I wonder how my mil managed all her bags without ado!  I don't know how to do that.  I always feel guilty of having more.  But sometimes they are too pretty to ignore and refuse. 

My mom in law (God rest her soul) had each bag with a tube of lipstick, a fan, a key chain with tiny scissors, nail cutter, silver ear cleaner and cute trinkets.  There's a rosary, hankies, cotton buds, band aid, compact powder, mirror, matches, toothpicks and even a scarf!  She is unbelievable!!  Color coded bags and accessories were not in my imagination before.  Yet, these are all essentials.  Maybe being a guerilla, a girl scout, a neat-freak and an elegant woman made her come up with a disaster kit in Prada, Loubotin, Chanel, etc.  She had a fancy bag made by prisoners and it was very elegant with green things inside.  When her daughters started to manage the distribution of her personal stuff, I was given a buff leather bag from France with all the girly stuff in it. 

I have always wanted a not too complicated closet.  But a girl is a girl!  And I thought that when my things won't fit my aparador anymore, then I have too much and God knows that it has always been a problem thinking where to put stuff and  when to use them.

The difference between Mommy Eli and me is that she is a collector by nature.  I use my things.  She preserves.  She admires them all.  I get tired of my possesions.  She nurtures each of them.  Maybe Ana takes after her Lola.  She has all her trinkets neatly lined up while mine would end up in knots and tangles.


Hay Naku!

the boat is sinking part 2: ruminations



In my mind, I have a few things in my closet and have emptied quite considerably.  Virtually setting aside clothes that no longer fit me: by size and by age.  Realistically speaking, last Christmas, I gifted my staff clothes I labelled "sweet partings from my closet: chosen and loved".  They, I mean my staff came in all sizes and all the clothes I gave away fitted me but also fitted them!  They wore these clothes from my collection on special occasions and proudly, one day, all them came to work wearing the clothes I gave them.  (I would be shy to give them something I have worn more than 3 times as I would not want to be discovered through my scent.... or odour for that matter!) 

Seated on my wicker chair for sharing again with my staff are clothes by Marni, DKNY, Zara, French Collection.  They were bought for 250-350 pesos from my "suki" at the Sunday Market.  These are surplus clothes from different sources but what interested me most was when I found out that there are actually people who buy clothes they will never wear!!!  Thanks to them! We scavengers get the pleasure of wearing  excellently constructed and designed clothes.

Marni clothes, I learned from my diggings, are always  very simply presented in neutrals but the engineering of their folds and cuts are geniusly constructed.  My daughter-in-law, Marie loves this brand.  I have gotten several for her and they look elegant when worn on elegant occasions and dressed down and nonchalant when donned on hippy and casual affairs.  Such practical find! 

Tsumori Chisanto is I think a contemporary designer for modernly surreal people.  Mermaids, starfishes, cats in watercolor effect with stitchings and very exciting and playful details.  I collected them for a while.  I have hardly anything left in my closet.  I bought and sold for the same price.

Why not?  I enjoyed pulling them out of the racks and it gives me so much satisfaction seeing other people on budget wear something as gorgeous as these labels!  Some teachers are afraid to try but the league of young and daring ones are not.  Daring but not revealing.  Daring because it is not mainstreamed.

So I think I have had enough of this phase.  I am no longer used to buying clothes beyond 300 pesos but I have now gone back to having some clothes custom-made by an dear friend, a sister I may consider, a banker who is extra perceptive and a dress shop owner too!!! Nakakainggit!!  I wanted to own a dress boutique before if not a sari-sari store or a candy store. 

So she made me several clothes, two I wore in  my school's graduations, the other in my mom-in-laws funeral.  Far from my hippie and flower-child image, these dresses make me look "put-together" in classic fabric. 

I will be keeping them till I slim down or fat up.  No way my Php250.00 Alexander Mqueen will go too.  It does not fit me nicely but i am keeping it for the marvelous bird! 

Aren't clothes issues just as disconcerting as national issues.  lol!